Wednesday, November 11, 2015
Friday, October 16, 2015
You've Lost That Loving Feeling
Off the hinges! I love Taraji, I was a fan even before "Person of Interest". When I found out she was an LGBTQ ally that was it. I think her work is phenomenal and she plays the shytt out of Cookie. But she really needs to let me design her a dress...and Jussie Smollett is "da man". I should be designing his suits too, really doe!
Monday, October 12, 2015
Sunday, October 11, 2015
Wednesday, September 2, 2015
ATAM Trans Murders Pt 2
If your partner/lover knows you are trans and he or she is serious then there is no acceptance time period to come to terms it's 2015 ditch those negative people you'll be happier and healthier for it. If someone knows you are a transsexual (transgender woman) then they know. There, is no splitting of hairs or sprinking the "subject" with frankensence and mur or dancing in the full moon light of the acceptance-uncloseting ritual. If they are ashamed and afraid of some unknowable-fringe future event then that is their own particular world.
There is no absolute do it my way or the highway, but being in the closet for an extended time period is an excuse in the 21st century. Yes it's dangerous but more so for the transwoman than for the person who claims to be their soulmate. If a man doesn't want people to know he engages in relationships with transwomen then she needs to cut him loose. There is too much data and social media to demonstrate people can live fruitful full lives inspite of being in constant physical danger. In free societies there should be virtually no excuse for being in the closet for 5, 10, 15, 20 years.
Being in the closet is an excuse, I know I was in the closet before I came out as trans. It wasn't easy coming out but society sets us up to conform. They need to face their fears, from what I hear you and some other men have a support group, how friggin cool is that?
Fear is a powerful abstract. I do not have omnipotent clarifying answers but since I've started my transition some 6 years ago I've come to love myself more and more each day. LIfe is prescious and finite. As I age I know some day I will not wake up one day (hopefully my expiration is by natural causes), but whether by the former method or an untimely demise I am working on living my life to the fullest. The mistakes and wrongs I have committed are like some horrible distant memory in the past. So when I hear talk of men being on the down low I am reminded about things in the past, in that fear, in that self-hate and in that negative-self talk, these issues are things I try to leave in the past (no one is perfect).
If a man claims to want to be with me and needs time to come to terms, what is an acceptable time period? I may be hit by a bus the next day or perish during a sky diving mishap. So I don't want to be brash or crude but if these men want to be happy with themselves then these men should live their life. You basically said that during this and the last vid, and in my humble opinion you hit the nail on the head as usual.
I have plans to someday "soon" skydive. So you closeted fearfull men out there looking for someone you need to step up as time wait's for no man or woman for that matter.
There is no absolute do it my way or the highway, but being in the closet for an extended time period is an excuse in the 21st century. Yes it's dangerous but more so for the transwoman than for the person who claims to be their soulmate. If a man doesn't want people to know he engages in relationships with transwomen then she needs to cut him loose. There is too much data and social media to demonstrate people can live fruitful full lives inspite of being in constant physical danger. In free societies there should be virtually no excuse for being in the closet for 5, 10, 15, 20 years.
Being in the closet is an excuse, I know I was in the closet before I came out as trans. It wasn't easy coming out but society sets us up to conform. They need to face their fears, from what I hear you and some other men have a support group, how friggin cool is that?
Fear is a powerful abstract. I do not have omnipotent clarifying answers but since I've started my transition some 6 years ago I've come to love myself more and more each day. LIfe is prescious and finite. As I age I know some day I will not wake up one day (hopefully my expiration is by natural causes), but whether by the former method or an untimely demise I am working on living my life to the fullest. The mistakes and wrongs I have committed are like some horrible distant memory in the past. So when I hear talk of men being on the down low I am reminded about things in the past, in that fear, in that self-hate and in that negative-self talk, these issues are things I try to leave in the past (no one is perfect).
If a man claims to want to be with me and needs time to come to terms, what is an acceptable time period? I may be hit by a bus the next day or perish during a sky diving mishap. So I don't want to be brash or crude but if these men want to be happy with themselves then these men should live their life. You basically said that during this and the last vid, and in my humble opinion you hit the nail on the head as usual.
I have plans to someday "soon" skydive. So you closeted fearfull men out there looking for someone you need to step up as time wait's for no man or woman for that matter.
ATAM Trans Murders Part One
It is always a pleasure to here you speak about our issues in so passionate and eloquent a manner, Thank you.
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Friday, July 24, 2015
Thursday, July 23, 2015
Star Trek: TNG - "The Outcast" - 'I Am Tired of Lies' Scene
This is what I'm talkin bout. You go Soren!
Friday, July 17, 2015
Thursday, July 16, 2015
Sunday, July 12, 2015
natural hair documentary: KICKIN' IT WITH THE KINKS
Outstanding, I learned so much. At 30:15 the sista speaking broke it down like a diva. When she started rapping about knowing where you are from it got me to thinking. As an African American, my roots as I'm told are in Senegal, so I can litterally call myself Senegalese-American-now that is tight! Boom!
Saturday, July 11, 2015
Saturday, July 4, 2015
Friday, July 3, 2015
Ts Madison speaking on "lil scrappy" views on Trans community
Funny stuff. You go mama. I got your book today, good reading. Take care.
Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Monday, June 29, 2015
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Transgender Rights (HBO)
If this wasn't so funny I would cry. John Oliver is a prince!
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
Thursday, June 11, 2015
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
The Back stabber Trans Women
Tell it sis, tell it all, spill the beans, greens and split spleens lol!
Thursday, June 4, 2015
My Thoughts on @Caitlyn_Jenner
ALL of what you said was the truth, I may have said some things different but at the end of the day Caitlyn is doing Caitlyn and if I worry about what she is doing or what some other close minded numbskull thinks I'll end up waisting valuable time and that ain't cool so bump what the haters say. On the e-thugs (brillinant term)...yepper, just a bunch of wannabe hypeseekers. I had thought to knock the fire out of one just earlier today, seriously!
...but sis where did you get that "Black Trans Lives Matter" t-shirt? I want one.
...but sis where did you get that "Black Trans Lives Matter" t-shirt? I want one.
Monday, May 25, 2015
Thursday, May 21, 2015
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
Wednesday, May 6, 2015
Christian Game Developer Creates Shooter Game Called “Kill The Faggot
Some people are so deluded they imagine their bigotry, racism and hatred as "respectable attributes". IT ISN'T MIND BOGGLING we think making a hateful anti-LGBTQ social media game as a way to get back at LGBTQ people who stood up for their human righs is hateful and bigoted.
What is mind boggling is this man claims to be Christian and he made that game to begin with; then he claims the LGBTQ community is trying to destroy him. Insomuch as anti-LGBTQ people view their hatred as respectable isn't profound it's proufoundly scary. They profess to be Christ like, forgiving, loving, compassionate and then argue they are under attack because someone who "by coincidence" happens to be not the same color, or ethnicity or share like minded gender identities as someone deserving of a horrible death and back it up with pseudo-religious speak. That is sickening!
What is mind boggling is this man claims to be Christian and he made that game to begin with; then he claims the LGBTQ community is trying to destroy him. Insomuch as anti-LGBTQ people view their hatred as respectable isn't profound it's proufoundly scary. They profess to be Christ like, forgiving, loving, compassionate and then argue they are under attack because someone who "by coincidence" happens to be not the same color, or ethnicity or share like minded gender identities as someone deserving of a horrible death and back it up with pseudo-religious speak. That is sickening!
Tuesday, May 5, 2015
AMERICAN REFLEXXX
American values at work in the South You gotta love the brotherly love this "human" being is being shown...not
Sunday, May 3, 2015
Sunday, April 12, 2015
Monday, April 6, 2015
Saturday, April 4, 2015
SASHASTROKES TRANNYCONDA
For all the down low men of any race...you know you like it. An for all the haters, this is what down low men are into. Make sure you direct your anger are the approriate party.
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Ts Madison Spills T, Self Acceptance
Outstanding! I will really miss you ladies. All the topics and commentary were on point. I already suscribe to TS Madison's Youtube page but I've only watched a video here and there but girl tonight I became a "TRUE BELIEVER", that's a book by the way. I wish all you ladies the best.
Monday, February 16, 2015
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